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Poem for Dad

Mon 14 Feb 2011 12:24:42 | 0 comments

Valentines Day and Alzheimer's

by Margaret Furnas on Saturday, February 12, 2011 at 12:12pm

Visiting Dad,

Will he remember me,

Valentine box of chocolates in hand,

It's February 

Time and Days are like Groundhog days here

The bulletin board in the entryway filled with cutout

Hearts.

 

Dad sleeping

Dreams and sleep

Let him pass the time  

Update the memo board

Oh Larry, Mary Kay and Patti visited

Dad's memory on a memo board 

 

A kiss and hug on the forehead

Dad slowly comes back

Were his eyes always this blue

The color of the sea

Sitting up 

Is that disappointment I see

I am still here 

Yes Dad

 

Dad unwraps the pink flocked ribbon

Blue flocked wallpaper memories

Dad toasted my engagement in that room

Take my mind away from here

Dad lets fly away, back there

I did not know 

Blue eyes 

That 

You 

Would 

Open

Chocolates 

Here 

All 

Those 

Years 

Ago.

 

Cellophane

We both tug at it

Finally a seam is opened

Like Dad's transluscent

Skin

His tent

His soul is enclosed

His work

To leave 

This

Earth

To Fly

Yes Dad 

You are still here.

 

Chocolate hearts

Pour forth 

We open the box 

Upside down

Dad and I 

Catch 

The Falling Hearts

 

Love

Pouring Forth 

In 

Chocolate

It is a momentary 

Escape

Dad and I enjoy 

 

Love

It's just like that

It cannot be contained

It cannot be bound

Dad 

Your Love

Bountiful.

 

Walking

The Halls

Dad 

And 

I.

We hold hands this time.

Searching

For 

An

Escape

We come round again.

 

The

Room

Says

James Hoying

His address

All the homes

You 

Built 

Dad.

This is not of your own 

Hands.

 

Trust

Faith

Chocolates 

It comes 

Down

To These.

 

Closed

Those 

Blue Eyes

Dreaming 

A New Address

A room

Being 

Prepared 

Just for 

Dad

 

With

Blue 

Flocked

Wallpaper

And

Chocolates.


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